First Time MOM

Babies, Kids, Children. Tips and Tricks to handle your kids.

Why the BLOG?

I am a mother of a four years old son. When my son was born, I didn't know anything about baby and how to handle them. I learned many great things from my parents and friends. Here's are some of the things that I-wish-I-knew-that stuffs that I discovered.

I wish for

- For a home of our own (I am currently living with my parents-in-law) - For a room where the law of time doesn't apply - For a super speed internet connection

Showing posts with label Newborn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Newborn. Show all posts

Baby Language

This is revolutionary. I saw is on Oprah's rerun last year. I wish, I heard about it when my son is still a newborn.

Between 0-3 months, infants make what Dunstan calls sound reflexes. According to Dunstan, we all have reflexes, like sneezes, hiccups, and burps, that all have a recognizable pattern when sound is added to the reflex. There are other reflexes that all babies experience, and when sound is added to these, a distinct, preemptive "cry" will occur before the infant breaks into what Dunstan calls the hysterical cry. Dunstan claims that these preemptive cries can indicate what the infant requires (e.g., food, comfort, sleep, etc.), and they escalate to the hysterical cry if they are not answered. As the infant matures past 3 months in vocalization, the sound reflexes become replaced with more elaborate babbling.

According to Dunstan, the five universal words (or sound reflexes) used by infants are:

Neh. I'm hungry - An infant uses the sound reflex "Neh" to communicate their hunger. The sound is produced when the sucking reflex is triggered, and the tongue is pushed up on the roof of the mouth.

Owh. I'm sleepy - An infant uses the sound reflex "Owh" to communicate that they are tired. The sound is produced much like an audible yawn.

Heh. I'm experiencing discomfort - An infant uses the sound reflex "Heh" to communicate stress, discomfort, or perhaps that they need a fresh diaper. The sound is produced by a response to a skin reflex, such as feeling sweat or itchiness in the bum.

Eairh. I have lower gas - An infant uses the sound reflex "Eairh" to communicate they have flatulence or an upset stomach. The sound is produced when trapped air from a belch that is unable to release and travels to the stomach where the muscles of the intestine tighten to force the air bubble out. Often, this sound will indicate that a bowel movement is in progress, and the infant will bend its knees, bringing the legs toward the torso. This leg movement assists in the ongoing process.

Eh. I need to burp - An infant uses the sound reflex "Eh" to communicate that they need to be burped. The sound is produced when a large bubble of trapped air is caught in the chest, and the reflex is trying to release this out of the mouth.

If this really true and applicable, then this is like a manual book for newborn babies :)

Get Naked Trick

The doctor said that the baby needs to be feed every three or four hours, but sometimes my son didn’t awake for 5 or 6 hours. Here are a few tricks I did to wake my son up.
  1. The first trick. I held him in a sitting position on my lap, one hand holding his chin, the other holding his back. Forward the baby body with the hip as the ‘hinge’. When he’s awake, move him to the breasting position. If he falls back to sleep before he get the chance to drink his milk, repeat the steps.
  2. The second trick. I tried undoing his clothes, all of it (newborn baby doesn’t like to be naked). Change his diaper, rub his chin with a finger, tickle his feet, or try to burp him.
  3. Another trick, when he’s awake and gets the chance to put the nipple in his mouth and falls back to sleep. Then I tried waking him up by moving the nipple/bottle or rubbing his cheek or moving his position so that he will be awake and suck a little.

If everything fails, then I let him sleep back and let hunger wake him up. If you have a problem with your baby sleeping attitude please contact your doctor and consult with them immediately.